Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Is my friendship up for debate?

In the spirit of friendship, I have removed this post to accommodate a friend's request.

May God bless you all,

Derron
Cherishing Mother

I think I am going through one of the hardest periods of my young adulthood. On this past Saturday, I watched the lid close forever on what I would call greatness. The final viewing of my grandmother. Although I am thanking and praising God for His delivering and healing of her body, by taking her away from her pain and sufferings, I find myself crying at the many things God had allowed to accomplish, even in her aging.
Lucy Alexander Nicholson
(Mother's Twin Sister)

12/31/1919 - 11/24/2007

Tuesday, November 20, 2007


Lay down thy weary one, thy head upon His breast.

Lucille Alexander Braud "Mother"
12/31/1919 - 11/19/2007

Sleep Baby!

Monday, November 12, 2007

More images from Cape Town
sunset on the Coast

worship service in Laanga Township

Saturday, November 03, 2007

Here is an exercise in thanks for all.
As we enter into the holiday season, I can't help but to reflect on two good friends that past this week. Two separate occasions, two seperate states. I reflect on their lives and how they touched mine and others around them. This past week, my mind heavily feel on them and the conversations we had, celebrated life and how we praised God.

On last week, I lost a childhood buddy and classmate in a motorcycle accident. I remember my classmate and childhood buddy for his jokes and larger than life smile. His smile will be missed.

My grandmother in her 88th year of life is now in hospice care. She suffered a stroke some years ago and had been bed bound since. The older of a set of twins, she and her sister share a great bond. Here is where God steps into the equation. Her sister has Alzheimer's and has trouble recognizing family and friends including names. As I grew up I always remembered them celebrating a birthday toast and party with their children, grandkids, djs, the whole nine yards. Well as my grandmother began to have major pains and was admitted into hospice, we were told that her sister, who does not remember anyone, began calling her name for a full day. Not long after she became sick and had to enter the hospital.

So as i prepare to go home to be with my grandmother in her final chapter of life, just to thanks her for helping me in life, giving me a place to stay, for the whippings(omg the broomstick), for the nurturing and for the extra take home eggnog on christmas and new years (which is her and her sister's bday, yet they are a year apart. figure it out), i want to show my appreciation for life. I thank God for his blessing s daily. I thank him for my family and friends that i have met and gained along the way. I think him for keeping me in my right mind, when i and other sometimes think I may be losing it. LOL.

I could go on forever, but forever is not mine here.

As we go into the Thanksgiving holiday, which is before we beg for gifts(lol), let us all be thankful for our gifts given by the creator naturally in life.

I speak your name for presence in my life even now:

Randall Sutton-transitioned this week 06
Corey Courts-transitioned this week 06
Oscar "O. Jay" Lawrence, Jr.- transitioned this week 07
Lucille Alexander Braud- grandmother
Lucy Alexander- great aunt